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Shy and awkward

don't be shy...

This group should probably be set to private. You probably won't have the courage to join. Don't be shy, come on in, we're all your friends! You can join without even making a comment - just sit in the corner until you're ready to make a statement...no one is judging you.
If you have a problem with shyness - even if you hide it well - or feel awkward in social situations, this is the group for you.
Perhaps you were shy, but have found a way to overcome the discomfort - share your solutions and help us all feel better about ourselves. Virb is the place for making friends so don't waste a minute more. moo!

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sweetevilcindy says:

Hello, everyone,

If anyone should be here, it's definitely I! I get so at a loss for words with people I don't know. Even online, my shyness is somewhat reflected, though in person, I'd be VERY quiet. I truly wish I wasn't shy, I really would love to become more outgoing and spontaneous. Feeling nervous around people is not a good feeling.

posted Apr 27


Elena says:

Hi everyone. I'm extremely shy like the other members here. I'm totally comfortable online, but in person? Forget it. It's like night and day and no matter what I do, I can't get past that. Sigh...feeling kind of awkward now. ...

posted Jan 29

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moo says:

You're in the right place elena.
Why do you think I started the group in the first place (and I suspect a fair few people will be looking at this comment and thinking that I'm a big fat liar), but the truth is I'm so shy it hurts sometimes - and though I AM getting better, with the help of my online friends, in real life I hate social situations and avoid them at all costs.

posted Jan 29


jo says:

I can really identify with your feelings. Because of my job, I'm forced outside my comfort-zone and made to be very social. Truth be told...I'm much more happy just hanging out around the house or with my very small group of friends.

Isn't it wonderful that we have this outlet for our alter-egos to come out and play?

posted Jan 29


moo says:

yep!
I'm constantly amazed - and often wonder if my inner (internet) self is more the real me than the real-life me... those thoughts can drive you nuts though - what's real and what isn't.

posted Jan 29


jo says:

I know! Better to not wonder or worry and just enjoy it for what it is...

posted Jan 29


heshta says:

i don't know why I'm like that.

posted Dec 21


heshta says:

I'm absolutely horrible on the phone, and I totally have to get over my nerves in person too.

posted Dec 13


Brad says:

For some reason, I am super shy in my Algebra 2 class.. Maybe because I hate my teacher, maybe because I find it boring.. I don't know, but I am shy in there...

posted Dec 8


EmptySmile says:

I learned that the best way to approach someone is not to tell them stories about how you're crazy. I think that's helpful advice for people who are shy and trying to form social relationships.

posted Oct 5

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annihilation [floating upon little pink pills] says:

hehe.. t'is true.

posted Oct 6


moo says:

posted Oct 1


badlogo says:

aw, everyone's just so shy in here that no one is commenting anymore...

posted Sep 17

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moo says:

I'm amazed anyone had the courage to even join! (and yet - 27 members - all sitting quietly not daring to comment - except for you! Well done!)

posted Sep 17


heshta says:

awkward....so awkward....

especially in real life.....sometimes I don't say anything OR I can't shut up.....it makes everyone uncomfortable and then I feel like such a dope....like right now....beating myself up because I would shut up yesterday.....ugh.....sometimes I just hate myself....

posted Jul 22


TEEN*IDOL says:

Wow in this "Shy" group, I finally feel like I belong somewhere :) **Awkwardly smiles..then walks away.**

posted Jul 15


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